Helping a Veteran Family Member Seek Addiction Treatment

Military life can pose many challenges for the 1% of our nation that protects the rest of us. Experiencing extreme stress, trauma, separation, and injury can lead to the development of substance use disorders. 

People often turn to alcohol or drugs to manage pain, trauma, and mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, or PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder). Often, service members do not seek help for mental health challenges through regular military channels. It is important to offer emotional support, resources, and guidance to someone who is seeking help with addiction treatment.

According to the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) more than one in 10 veterans who seek care at the VA meet the criteria for a substance abuse disorder diagnosis. Without the rules and protection of military service, a person struggling with addiction can feel they have nowhere to turn for help.

Addressing addiction requires a comprehensive approach that focuses on the physical, psychological, and social aspects of addiction. With the support and the proper resources, you can regain control of your life and get on the road to recovery. If you or a loved one is struggling with addiction, it is crucial to seek help as soon as possible. 

Ways to Support a Veteran with Addiction

• Be patient. Addiction is a complex and challenging issue and recovery is a long-term process. 
• Don’t push. Offer ongoing support but know that forcing your advice on someone will not always be accepted.
• Listen. Make sure they know you are there for them and let them talk about their struggles without feeling judged.
• Share resources but approach the topic gently. Treatment is not a sign of weakness but something that can improve their overall well-being and quality of life.
• Be observant of the signs of addiction. Identify if your military loved one has mood swings, changes in behavior, physical and mental health deterioration, loss of interest in hobbies or activities, social withdrawal, or neglecting responsibilities. Address any concerns you have with compassion.

Addiction Treatment and Resources for Veterans in Recovery

Acknowledging the need for help is a courageous first step in the recovery journey. For those in the military, it can feel difficult to know where to begin but fortunately, there are many resources available.

The military’s TRICARE program offers education and treatment for substance use disorders and Military OneSource offers support services and confidential counseling. For veterans, the VA has a wide range of programs. 

You can help your loved one feel comfortable seeking professional treatment through a comprehensive program that meets a variety of needs. Specializing in addiction treatment, counselors can assist with each step of the recovery process.

Treatment options will vary depending on the severity of substance abuse, underlying mental health issues, and a person’s physical health. A person who has been using high doses of drugs or for a prolonged period of time would benefit from inpatient treatment where there is round-the-clock monitoring and support. Outpatient treatment is best suited for those with a less severe dependence who can succeed with attending treatment at a facility while still living at home.

During treatment, it is important to maintain a consistent schedule of counseling and therapy which can help deal with trauma, underlying mental health issues, and other things that lead to drug abuse. Support groups, especially those designed for current and former military personnel, can encourage peers who face similar struggles.

Take Care of Yourself in the Process

Supporting someone dealing with substance abuse can feel overwhelming. It is important to take care of yourself while you are focusing on supporting your loved one.

You can be an immense help to someone seeking treatment by assisting with everyday tasks such as transportation, childcare, scheduling appointments, and other daily essentials. Everyone’s needs are different so ask your veteran loved one what you can do to relieve some of their stress. Another way to support your family members is to encourage them to stay on the path to recovery by attending aftercare sessions and support groups. 

This journey may not always be smooth. Often, a person battling addiction will resist help and the idea of seeking treatment. Remain positive and be willing to face setbacks with understanding and compassion.

Understanding that recovery is a lifelong process, you may consider changing aspects of your own lifestyle to support your loved one. Remember to take care of yourself. You may wish to seek therapy, connect with other military families, or join a support group to help process the feelings you experience and learn coping tools. 

Your patience and encouragement are essential – not just to your loved one but to yourself. Progress is progress, no matter how slow or how small. Together, you can stay motivated during this process because you know the outcome will be worth it!